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Lesson · 4 min Steady

Custom Is a Costume

In one line Separate what you do for the audience from what you would still do alone.

Diogenes set status down the way another person sets down a cloak. He lived with little, and he treated applause as a poor measure of a life. The one who needs the least is the one the crowd can push around the least.

A custom can still be useful: a queue, a greeting, a shared mealtime. It becomes a costume when you keep it in order to be seen keeping it, or when you mistake the cloak for the person inside it.

Use a pair of sentences. Name one thing you are doing for the audience. Name one thing you would still do if no one were scoring it. The second sentence is the part that is yours.

The lamp in daylight

Illustration: The lamp in daylight

Diogenes walked with a lit lamp in the middle of the day and said he was looking for a human being. The crowd was already there. On one reading, what he could not find was a person who was not performing for the crowd.

A street full of people in full daylight was still not what he was after. He was asking them to set the performance down and look.

Try this today Pick one habit and ask what you would choose if nobody were scoring it.

Question 1 of 2

You choose the expensive version of a plain thing so the table will be impressed. Alone, you would not have chosen it.

How would the lesson describe that purchase?

Question 2 of 2

A title, a uniform, and a way of speaking are treated as proof that the wearer is worth more than the person beside them.

How should you treat the costume, on the lesson’s view?

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Sources
  • Wikipedia, “Diogenes” — Diogenes’ conduct against custom.
  • Diogenes Laertius, Lives of the Eminent Philosophers, 6.41 — The lamp in daylight and the search for a human being. The reading given here, that he found only people playing a part, is this lesson’s.
  • Diogenes Laertius, Book 6 — On living with little, and on refusing to let reputation do the work of a life. Public-domain translations include C. D. Yonge.