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Lesson · 4 min Gentle

Enough

In one line Ask what is steering the choice, and stop at the point where more adds only worry.

Put the two Epicurean lessons together and one question appears: what is enough? Fears of meddling gods and of death keep a mind rattled, and wants that depend on luck keep it reaching. Both make a person feel short of something.

Enough is not the smallest possible life. It is the level at which the body is free of pain and the mind is free of alarm: a meal, a friend, a quiet hour. Beyond that, each extra thing has to be weighed for what it adds and what it adds to your worries.

So when a choice comes, ask two things. Does it feed the fear or the want that is steering? Does it cost someone else their calm? If it does neither, take it gladly.

The promotion offer

Illustration: The promotion offer

Ravi is offered a promotion that means longer hours and a move. He is not unhappy where he is, but he is afraid that saying no will close the door for good.

He asks what is steering: the fear of being left behind. He asks what the extra pay would buy that he lacks, and finds little. He declines warmly, keeps his evenings, and sleeps well.

Try this today Before your next purchase or yes, ask what need it meets and what worry it adds.

Question 1 of 2

Ravi is offered a promotion with longer hours. He already has enough money and time with friends.

Which question moves him toward enough?

Question 2 of 2

Lea keeps buying better gadgets and feels more uneasy each time, worrying they will break or be stolen.

How would Epicurus read this?

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Sources
  • Epicurus, Letter to Menoeceus — A desire that depends on what you cannot secure is the one to set down. Bread, friendship, and a walk are the modest practice. Paraphrase. This lesson does not quote a modern English translation.
  • Epicurus, Letter to Menoeceus — The desires that stay are easy to meet and do not cost someone else. A pleasure that sends the bill elsewhere is not the settled one.