Lesson · 4 min Gentle
Except for Me
In one line To earn an exception, show what sets your case apart in a way the rule cares about; wanting one is not enough.
Special pleading applies a rule to everyone else while claiming an exception, with no difference that would justify it. “Everyone should keep to the speed limit. I was late, so I had to speed.” Everyone who speeds has a reason that feels pressing.
Exceptions are not always unfair. A doctor on call may keep a phone on where phones are banned, and an ambulance may run a red light. What makes those fair is a difference that matters for the rule’s purpose, one that would apply to anyone in the same position.
The test is to make the exception general. Say what makes your case different, then ask whether you would grant the same exception to anyone with that feature. If not, it is a double standard dressed up as a reason.
The office fridge
The office rule says to clear the fridge every Friday. Bruno leaves his lunch boxes in all weekend. “Mine are sealed,” he says, “so the rule does not apply to me.”
A colleague asks whether sealed boxes from anyone could stay. Bruno thinks about it and agrees that they could, if the label shows the date. The team changes the rule to say so, and now the exception is open to everyone.
Try this today The next time you want an exception, say what makes your case different and whether you would grant it to anyone.
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Quest2Reason. “Except for Me.” https://quest2reason.com/learn/lesson/except-for-me. Accessed 13 November 2026.
Sources
- Wikipedia, “Special pleading” — Claiming an exception to a rule without a relevant difference.
- Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Fallacies” — A modern survey of the fallacies and how they are classified.
- Internet Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Fallacies” — A long list of fallacies with short examples.