Lesson · 4 min Stretch
Feared or Loved?
In one line Machiavelli advised rulers to deal with the world as it is, not as it should be, raising the problem of dirty hands.
Niccolò Machiavelli was a Florentine diplomat who wrote The Prince in 1513, after losing his post. Earlier advice books urged rulers to be virtuous. Machiavelli said a ruler must look at how people actually behave, not how they ought to. A prince who is always good among so many who are not will come to ruin.
He asked whether it is better to be loved or feared, and answered that both are best, but if one must choose, fear is safer, so long as the ruler avoids being hated. He praised virtù, the skill and boldness to shape events, against fortuna, the chance that can sweep plans away.
Philosophers since have debated the problem of dirty hands: whether leaders sometimes must do wrong to do right, and what that costs them.
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Machiavelli’s longer work, the Discourses on Livy, praises republics and the liberty of citizens, which has led some readers to see The Prince as practical advice for a crisis, or even satire, rather than his whole view. Michael Walzer named the dirty hands problem in 1973, arguing that a politician who does wrong for the public good should still feel its weight.
The new manager
Rosa takes over a team that has been missing deadlines. Being friendly with everyone did not work for her predecessor.
She sets firm rules and enforces them, while staying fair and avoiding favorites, so that people respect her without resenting her. Machiavelli would approve of the method. The harder question is what she would do if success ever required something she believed was wrong.
Try this today Recall a time someone in charge had to choose between being liked and being effective. Ask what you would have done.
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Sources
- Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Niccolò Machiavelli” — Covers The Prince, the Discourses, virtù and fortuna.
- Wikipedia, “The Prince” — Summarizes the 1513 work and its reception.
- Wikipedia, “Problem of dirty hands” — Explains Walzer’s problem and later discussion.
- Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “The Problem of Dirty Hands” — Traces the problem to Machiavelli and gives Walzer’s view that the politician should feel guilt.
- Niccolò Machiavelli, The Prince, chapters 15, 17 and 25 (Marriott translation) — On how people actually behave, on being feared or loved, and on fortune.