Lesson · 4 min Gentle
Preferred, Not Good
In one line Health, money and reputation are worth choosing, but not at the price of your character.
The Stoics called health, money, and reputation indifferents. They did not call them worthless. They called them preferred or dispreferred, because a wise person still chooses health over illness when character is not the price.
Good, in their strict sense, is reserved for virtue: the quality of your choice. A fortune can be preferred and still fail to make you good. Losing it can hurt and still fail to make you bad.
The practical test is a trade. If keeping the preferred thing requires a cruel or cowardly choice, the indifferent has been mislabeled as the good.
The promotion
Dana can take a promotion by letting a teammate absorb blame for Dana’s mistake. The salary is preferred. The lie is the part Stoicism would call the real good-or-bad.
Refusing the lie does not require Dana to pretend money does not matter. It requires Dana to stop treating the money as the kind of thing that can justify the lie.
Try this today Notice one choice where something you want conflicts with honesty, and pick honesty.
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Sources
- Epictetus, Discourses — The distinction between what is ours and the externals we may still prefer.
- Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy, “Stoicism” — Virtue as the only good, with health and wealth as preferred indifferents.