Lesson · 4 min Gentle
Ripe Fruit and Raw
In one line The Tirukkural teaches ethics in couplets; one says harsh words, when kind ones will do, are unripe fruit.
The Tirukkural is a Tamil book of 1,330 couplets attributed to a poet called Thiruvalluvar. Its date is uncertain, with estimates from a few centuries BCE to the fifth century CE. It is arranged in three books: on virtue, on wealth and statecraft, and on love.
The couplets are short and practical. Speaking harshly when kind words are available, one says, is like picking unripe fruit when ripe fruit is at hand. Others praise gratitude, warn against anger and treat not killing as a high virtue. Wealth and power are discussed frankly, but as things to be gained and used rightly.
The book names no sect and rests on no one creed, which is why readers of many faiths have claimed it. Its habit is ethics in plain words, for ordinary life.
Go deeper
The Tirukkural is one of the most translated works from any Indian language. Tolstoy came across it in translation, and Gandhi read it, and both admired its teaching on non-violence. Its third book, on love, treats courtship and married life in the voices of the lovers, which surprised some later readers who expected an ethics book to stay solemn.
The performance review
A manager has to tell an employee that a project slipped badly. Her first draft is blunt and blaming, though everything in it is true.
She rewrites it to say the same facts with care for how they land, and adds what she will do to help. The message is no weaker. It is the ripe fruit instead of the raw.
Try this today Before a hard conversation, prepare the kind version of what you need to say, and use it.
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Sources
- Wikipedia, “Kural” — Covers the structure of the Tirukkural, its dating, its themes and its translations.
- Wikipedia, “Valluvar” — Covers what is known and told of the poet Thiruvalluvar and the book’s reception.
- Tirukkural, couplet 100, in the chapter on pleasant speech — The couplet on ripe and unripe fruit. Paraphrased; this lesson does not quote a translation.