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Existence and experience · 1947

The ethics of ambiguity

Overview

A role is lived, not issued in advance. Your freedom is unfinished while someone else’s is ignored. Real limits can still be named.

Simone de Beauvoir starts from a freedom that is not a clean solo. You are free, and the world is full of other freedoms, and a situation can be heavy without being a script. Bad faith is the attempt to hide in the script: I am only this role, so the choice was never mine. The opposite cheat is pretending a real locked door is not there. A prison, a law, a lack of money, a body that will not do what you ask: these can be named. Naming them is not the same as deciding you have no freedom anywhere.

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Her ethics turns on the other person. A freedom that never asks whether the next person can also choose is unfinished. To assign someone a role in advance (this is what women are, this is what that class is for) is to replace their freedom with your description. The work is to act in a way that does not require their erasure.

This is not Ibn Sina’s distinction between essence and existence. His cut is about what a thing is and whether it is. Hers is about a human life that has to be lived, and about the temptation to treat a person as a finished definition. Asking, with a real chance of refusal, is allowed. Deciding for them in a flattering sentence is not.

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Key terms

Ambiguity
Beauvoir’s word for the human condition: free yet limited, a subject yet also an object to others.
Freedom
Something that becomes real only when we also will the freedom of others.
Situation
The body, history and society within which each person’s freedom has to act.
Oppression
When some people’s freedom is cut off by others, as with women in a world defined by men.

In their words

“One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.”
Beauvoir, The Second Sex, trans. H. M. Parshley

Further reading

  • The Ethics of Ambiguity · Simone de Beauvoir
  • The Second Sex · Simone de Beauvoir

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