
Existence and experience · 1947
The ethics of ambiguity
Overview
A role is lived, not issued in advance. Your freedom is unfinished while someone else’s is ignored. Real limits can still be named.
Simone de Beauvoir starts from a freedom that is not a clean solo. You are free, and the world is full of other freedoms, and a situation can be heavy without being a script. Bad faith is the attempt to hide in the script: I am only this role, so the choice was never mine. The opposite cheat is pretending a real locked door is not there. A prison, a law, a lack of money, a body that will not do what you ask: these can be named. Naming them is not the same as deciding you have no freedom anywhere.
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Her ethics turns on the other person. A freedom that never asks whether the next person can also choose is unfinished. To assign someone a role in advance (this is what women are, this is what that class is for) is to replace their freedom with your description. The work is to act in a way that does not require their erasure.
This is not Ibn Sina’s distinction between essence and existence. His cut is about what a thing is and whether it is. Hers is about a human life that has to be lived, and about the temptation to treat a person as a finished definition. Asking, with a real chance of refusal, is allowed. Deciding for them in a flattering sentence is not.
Where it answers
How should we act?
Act so that your freedom widens other people’s, never by deciding their part for them.
Key terms
- Ambiguity
- Beauvoir’s word for the human condition: free yet limited, a subject yet also an object to others.
- Freedom
- Something that becomes real only when we also will the freedom of others.
- Situation
- The body, history and society within which each person’s freedom has to act.
- Oppression
- When some people’s freedom is cut off by others, as with women in a world defined by men.
In their words
“One is not born, but rather becomes, a woman.”
Further reading
- The Ethics of Ambiguity · Simone de Beauvoir
- The Second Sex · Simone de Beauvoir
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